Want to try something new, but no idea how to bring it up? I've got you, friend! This free printable takes the guesswork (and the awkwardness) out of talking about what you want.

Each of you fills out your own copy in private, marking ideas as Yes, No, or Maybe. Then you compare notes and look for the matches. No mind reading, no pressure, and nobody has to go first. 😉

What's inside:

• About 50 ideas to spark some curiosity, from setting the mood to toys, sensation play, power play, roleplay, and switching up the scene
• Simple instructions so you both know how it works
• Blank rows to add your own ideas
• Ground rules for comparing your lists (spoiler: a no always wins)

Perfect if you're not feeling creative or just aren't sure what options are out there. Print one for each of you, grab a pen, and have fun with it!

XOXO,
Carrie B
Stay spicy, my friends. 🌶️